How To Connect The Dots: My Video from TEDxIITKanpur

I recently had the privilege of addressing the brilliant minds of IIT Kanpur, one of the premier most institutes of India. This 20 min video of my talk at TEDx IIT Kanpur on the topic ‘How to connect the dots’ might help you solve the following 3 critical Career Questions :-

1. You are good at something. But ‘How to become a successful Entrepreneur with that ‘something’?’

2. What 5 clever decisions you must take & which can help you; as YOU look to connect your dots?

3. My own story as a Motivational Speaker: How I connected my dots !

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February 8, 2013

Dear Indian Man: A Short Open Letter to Patriarchy from a Man

Bahut huaa ab taq ! She died. We do not even know her name. Guess it was the rape on the ‘Image of my modern India; a country which is more pseudo than real’. Her rape came to light but there would be thousands of other; which did not on the pretext of social ignominy. Dear Indian MAN: Women want us to KNOW this:-

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December 29, 2012

Vicky Loner’s Foolproof Guide to Overcoming Sex Addiction on Your Own

This blog post is for every girl / guy who is between 18 & 30 years of age. It is also very much for those who are 30+ but refuse to accept that they have grown. Keeping the child alive within you doesn’t always mean ‘you do whatever you want to do’! Here’s Vicky Loner’s (not Vicky Donor) guide on overcoming sex addiction on your own. Yes, I am NOT GOING TO mince words in this one, and YES, I am going to be sarcastic! Disclaimer: – Just not for people < 18.

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November 27, 2012

10 Reasons Why I Do Not Want To Be Rich

I turn 35 in a few days. It is a confusing age. Something within you tells you that you have grown up. Still there is that another something within you that doesn’t want you to give up so soon —on your ‘single, flirty’ ways about life. As I look back at the last decade, I find a lot of satisfaction. God has kept me special and especially lucky. Could create whatever a guy seeks in his early life. Here are 10 reasons why I do not want to be rich; my take on money and happiness in life.

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November 6, 2012

(Video) What helped me FLY HIGHER in my Life?

Just a few years back I was regularly finding myself stuck in mediocrity, boredom & confusions. Relationships & people issues were chaining me & stopping me from living 100%. I took a few strong decisions & those decisions helped me drop the unnecessary baggage & fly higher & higher. It is a much lighter and beautiful life now. It is ‘pay back’ time now.

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October 6, 2012

Jaanam Samjha Karo! 11 Things Women Need to Stop Doing

This post is for all the beautiful women out there who keep on thinking, ‘what went wrong/is going wrong between us’. This post is also for all those men, who think that their lady needs to understand them better, despite the fact that they know you inside out; 14 things women need to stop doing right away! (Warning: It is a long post. I had so much to say!)

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September 19, 2012

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How to convert your content into popular blogs ?

My Learnings :-

Majority of these Blogs come from my personal experience. And from the collective experiences of the people (youth) who write to me about their concerns and problems on my Social Media. If you wish to become a very good blogger on self-help, you do not need to read or write more. You need to begin to LIVE MORE. And understand India and Indian ways more deeply.

Start writing about what fascinates you and not merely about what is likely to become popular. No point writing what someone else could have written. Write as if your audience is very smart and as if your readers have very little time. This will infuse brevity and creativity into your blog writings.

Writing helps one in so many other ways too e.g. it helps me clarify my own mind. When I blog about things, I thought I was very sure about' I realize how unsure I am in reality. Having such a clear mind is a super power in these hyper distracted times.

My blogs are primarily on Self-help. But a few of my blogs on Relationships, Leadership, Time management, Communication skills, English Grammar & Vocabulary had 2 million plus unique views. Most Popular Blogs

After blogging for some 10 years continuously I took a small break. Now I do not intend to write long form content. Just micro-blogs on self-help. Also, motivational blogs in Hindi too.

HERE is my detailed write up on ‘How to start a Blog and make it very popular’.