So! Guys- what HAPPENings are HAPPENING on the ‘HAPPENING’ front of your Life? If not much- maybe you are NOT doing the NEW. You are just stuck with enacting ‘Your ONLY Life’; in a very ordinary way, yet looking for ways of living a better life. Ain’t gonna happen my friend, because, maybe you are feeling ‘USELESS’ because YOU are using it (brain) LESS. How can the results CHANGE; if the inputs do not CHANGE? Maybe it is time for you to- Do the NEW.

Use the ‘Do the NEW’ approach in these 5 ways of living a better life and see the results changing for yourself!

In your Family

Instead of keeping on asking ‘What your family does for you’ or ‘Always complaining that your family members do not think LIKE you do’ — why do not you take the challenge to,

‘BE a Superhero in your family’

And change the fortunes of your family for many generations to come. I see most youth usually grumbling/ complaining/ remaining upset/ feeling old fashioned/ greedy about material aspects — when it comes to family interactions. Change it. You be different. That’s one of the more foolproof ways of living a better life.

THINK BIG. Do the NEW. Be the Superhero. A new enthusiasm will propel you when you decide like that. Raise yourself and with you — the image and fortunes of your family. When you will become the superhero in your family-‘you will GIVE; and not always ASK for’. You will become the ROCKSTAR than just being an always DEMANDING / CRY baby.

The best things about being in family are actually NOT THINGS. All it needs is a SHIFT in thinking that- ‘I wish to Do the NEW’. What is the best way to become the MOST loved guy in your entire family?  Answer: – You PROGRESS maximum in your OWN Life & become just ‘FABULOUS’. No other way is MORE effective 🙂

Immeasurably CONTRIBUTE to your family; while speedily PROGRESSING in your own Life. You shall have DONE the NEW then ; for not many people are doing this.

IN Your Daily Life (in small things)

Let us look at the last Diwali. Didn’t some of you irritate your friends by

– Tagging 30+ friends of yours on FB with “May hundreds of lamps ….” messages /photos

– Sending forwarded WhatsApp messages – which said the same (which even you didn’t know / read)

– Giving / Sending Sweets (which you knew – they will not consume)

Believe you me- you are all set to do something similar next Diwali / this new year eve. Most of the stupid duniyaadari entanglements are self made. You will feel / look so mediocre if you ONLY do — what everyone else is doing. DO the NEW.

(20 Habits that will Help you Live a Better Life)

Do this NEW in the small, small things that you do in your daily Life. E.g. An early morning bath, calling your Mom twice in a day (for no reason at all), by not seeing those stupid serials on TV, by only doing constructive Facebooking, by keeping your desktop / wardrobe/ room more organized and clean, by eating healthy foods only / By not calling up ur Boyfriend/Gf to check if he/she has had dinner and by / in so many many other ways.

Here are some Superb Ways of Living a Better Life!


Trust me 2/3rd of the youth energy gets wasted in aspects as ‘Relationship maintenance and management’, in impressing people around, in looking ‘COOL’ and in proving that ‘you are RIGHT’.  No endeavor of man fails so constantly, with such regularity, as his quest for love. He helplessly waits to receive Love and regularly gets disappointed. You can become a SHOW STOPPER amongst your friends by doing it much less or by doing it at the right time only. Everyone is falling in LOVE — very easily and very frequently. You- ‘Do the NEW’. Wait for your right one.

Here’s much more on RELATIONSHIPS, should you wish to simplify this very important aspect of your life.

In your HEALTH

‘Sab duniyaadaari mein itney Vyast hain; ki Sehat hoti jaa rahi Trast hai’.

A casual visit to any hospital in India will tell you that it is the youth which is in limelight there because of lifestyle diseases as Spondylitis, Hypertension, Diabetes, Anxities ,or STD’s etc. You will genuinely feel that KFC, Mc Donalds etc. ROCK!!/OR have they rocked us?? Today if you decide to ‘Do the NEW’ ; it will help prevent the kids in your colony from calling you a Family pack (instead of 6 pack) but RICH uncle or a Bimaar but Mercedes waali Aunty; a few years later. Stop giving excuses of busyness. You can have excuses ….or you can have peak health and energy for creating other luxuries of life.

Looking to begin somewhere? 5 Healthy Habits that Will Change Your Life.

Don’t RUN with the worldliness. Put on your running shoes and run in a park. Do the NEW.


Almost everyone around is SO busy with people issues that duniya is becoming uselessly melodramatic and filmy. Every man and woman is seeking ‘attention’, ‘praise’ and is living on ‘assumptions’. Do the NEW here. Have a GOAL in life -which inspires you; even in the middle of your night. This GOAL will save you from doing the ordinary stuff.

Most people live in tensions of ‘living upto their images/ correcting their images. Do the NEW : by being comfortable in your own skin.

Everyone is Running and just Running. Unfortunately people give a Sunday to their bodies; not at all to their minds. Minds are still ‘Monday mornings’ 🙂

Do the NEW: You SLOW DOWN. For -even if you win the rat race- you’ll still be a chuhaa.


Gulzar sahib said it well when he said :-

‘Samajh sake to samajh zindagi ki uljhan ko
Sawal utne nahin hain jawab jitne hain.’

So, ‘Do the NEW’.

If I look back at my own life — ‘My best as a father, a son, a husband, a Motivational Speaker came out when ‘’I was Free, Happy, Playing pranks on friends, not checking mails / FB, when i was not Detailing Life’’…

Keep smiling! Your SMILE is the sexiest apparel that you can sport. Personally experienced   .  Almost everyone around is going nude (without the SMILE). You- ‘Do the NEW’ by adopting these, and many more ways of living a better life. There is only one idea you need, that will work – one shift in mindset that will change your being altogether. Chase that idea. But until then – do not expect new and better results if you are doing the same old stupid boring things. That’s juvenile!

May the FORCE be with you for doing the NEW.

Akash Gautam

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  • Raveena

    Thank u so much sir….
    Really needed to improve relations with my parents.Hope this will help!!! 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Raveena 🙂

      m sure u will be able to do it !

      Best Wishes

  • Sumanbajaj Sxc

    This post is really going to make me DO THE NEW!
    In all aspects 🙂
    #nice 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Suman 🙂

  • sirji……….
    fir se tha gye …..!!!

    LOVE IT A *10000 TONS……..INSPIRES ME TO “DO THE NEW” without listening what othr says but in a right way………!!!

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Rahul !!

  • joyjit pal


    • Anonymous

      Thanks Joyjit 🙂

  • short, simple and to the point.. one of yor best blogs so far 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Mayur 🙂

  • Karishmasahu11

    awesomest…dis is xactly my new
    “diwali resolution”…….xactly wt i hv just started 2 say 2 myself whenever m down nd depressed(for useless ppl issues)….d write up was in one word MIND BLOWING!!!!!!!!

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Karishma 🙂

  • Arunima

    Wonderful post !! Do the NEW …

    And u have done the NEW again Sir

    Super !!

  • Gourav

    thanks Sir, your articles have really inspired me to become self confident and trust myselves.

    • Anonymous

      Thanks !!

      Glad I could help 🙂

  • Rohit

    :-):-):-):-):-):-):-):-)….lots of smiles for u sir and for everybody…thank u sir

    • Anonymous

      Rohit … Thanks 🙂

  • ankit vikram

    awesome sir……….i will really help me a lot in my life…u rock….best blog

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Ankit 🙂

  • Ankurmadan

    sir sry to say but its not as motivating as your previous blogs

    • Anonymous

      Hi Ankur

      Shall try my best to improve and serve u better the next time 🙂

  • abhishek

    nice one bhaiyya….
    “Do the NEW
    Trust the Few
    Play the Jeu
    & Rock the milieu”

    • Anonymous

      Thank u Abhishek 🙂

  • maddy

    wow it was superb..:)

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Maddy !

      • Sachitsehra

        sir pls write an article on pre-stage fear..

  • Bravo !!

    • Anonymous

      thanks Tanya 🙂

  • Divyajagdeep

    i wish i cud write something about it………

  • Sayyamsethi

    Akash ek macchli ulti kyun ja rahi hai 🙂

  • I think this post came at the right time for me. I was confused, what to do for my parents to make them feel happy. Now I can say I need to DO something NEW.

    • Anonymous

      Happy to help !

      Rise & Shine 🙂

  • Leinus48


    • Anonymous

      Thanks Leinus 🙂

  • A.jain

    Topnotch.. Inspiring to the core…. 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Thanks !!

  • Varun Sharma

    one of the best post

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Varun 🙂

  • such a fab post yet again.
    Very practical which each one of should realize and follow.

  • Shreepriya Modi

    ag ur blogs r awesome..n u knw wat..i m 17 n nvr had a bf yet..n my frnds who have bfs say tat i m vry lucky tat i dnt hv any.. i mean dose who hv gf/bf r not happy n i dnt hav any n i m its bttr not 2 hav n be happy instead of having 1 n being happy 4 a while n den cry tat y all dis happened..i m not saying tat all relationships r lyk tat bt most of dem r..n thanx 4 ur blogs..

  • Parul Khattar

    superb ! sir .. 🙂 …whenever i get stuck up or feel order to regain myself .. i visit-revisit your blogs till it is fully stored in my memory for a new start…
    i love your line “rise n shine” …
    u r the Chanakya fr me, fr us everyone ….hope to be the chandra gupta one day 😉
    u r the best ….
    thank you …. 🙂 🙂 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Parul …

      thanks 🙂

      All answers are within the self… But, thanks for the kind words 🙂

      Best Wishes
      Rise & Shine !!

  • Sonalika

    superb as always 🙂

    • Anonymous

      Thanks Sonalika 🙂

  • pragyasharma

    thank u sir.. it inspires me a lot…

  • Sir, one thing I want to ask you is that why, when talking about love and relationships, do you mostly take the girl’s perspective ? your advice is mostly concentrated to giving advice to females in such cases. what about guys who are the victims of unrequited love or who face problems in relationships ? what advice do you give them?

  • Shashank

    A serious query sir: worked hard for CAT but couldn’t deliver as expected…past CAT getting aberrant from studies despite the set goal and most of the stuffs that you mentioned which kept me charged till the CAT..(Thanks for your speech at Xavier’s-Ranchi..) Pata nahi ab kya ho gaya hai…converted the once in a blue moon boozing ‘n’ weeding to every alternate days..sometimes even simultaneously…neend achhi to nahi but aa jaati hai…I know I’m getting public with this post of mine but swear I need to get over it…please help

  • pragya sharma

    mind blowing sir….wrds by Gulzar sahib…awesm…

  • anurag

    its always nice to read ur articles. sometimes i do get the point. cut out facebooking to just 30 mins a day maximum. and that too for vocab and cat related information.. thnkq.. keep writing.

  • ali

    thanks bhaiya…. your blogs really inspire me a lotttt

  • samiksha

    thank u so much Akash sir………. i want to improve my life by heart this time. But i’m confused that how should i initiate this. :/ Please suggest me ???????????

  • Stephens99

    Sexy…i will never know where i am moving Thanks Guru ji

  • khan92

    SIR tx a lot….
    it help’s me a lot…n nw onwards i vl try to improve my relationship wth mine family…n try my bst DO smethng new…so tht i vl set eg. fr others…

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