to see them as ‘Package Deals’… People are like mobile phones. Some have a great camera but poor battery life; some are great at music but are average at processing speeds, some look sleek but are v expensive. Ditto with people! All we need to understand is that you JUST need to be bothered about that feature in a particular person which is important to you. You need not confuse your mindset with a feature that is not pertinent to your usage. Accept people as ‘package deals’& that’s about it. That’s the secret art of managing people!
Shilpa Shetty in the movie Dostana said it so right in the song— ‘Shut up & Bounce! Baby Bounce’. She has a baby, a cricket team and a husband too now (not necessarily in the same order). If people would have understood Shilpa’s message in that song; they would not be over doing their TALKING in their lives 🙂 … This blogpost is about the ineffective communicators and their habits that ruin whatever comes out of their mouths.
I saw her frantically reciting a mantra. Her hands were intensely locking each other in prayer. Tears were there; which she was trying to hide from the curious eyes of onlookers. I still do not know her name. I never asked her. But the worry lines on her face made me re-think my To Dos for a Healthy Life.
Vacations enhance ‘Bonding’ between family members. They are forced to see each other and live with each other while on a vacation. If done well vacations have a tremendous recharging value too. But I have hardly seen people taking 100% vacations. Don’t kill your vacations after you have gone through all the trouble to find time to go on one – by being all over the place!
I recently had the privilege of addressing the brilliant minds of IIT Kanpur, one of the premier most institutes of India. This 20 min video of my talk at TEDx IIT Kanpur on the topic ‘How to connect the dots’ might help you solve the following 3 critical Career Questions :-
1. You are good at something. But ‘How to become a successful Entrepreneur with that ‘something’?’
2. What 5 clever decisions you must take & which can help you; as YOU look to connect your dots?
3. My own story as a Motivational Speaker: How I connected my dots !
Bahut huaa ab taq ! She died. We do not even know her name. Guess it was the rape on the ‘Image of my modern India; a country which is more pseudo than real’. Her rape came to light but there would be thousands of other; which did not on the pretext of social ignominy. Dear Indian MAN: Women want us to KNOW this:-