Loouuuu is in the air! Isn’t it? Even if the air quality is as complicated as the complicated relationships in your life?

Last week you probably celebrated Valentine’s Week. Either by laughing at ‘foolishly in love’ people (because you are jealously or happily single) or by actually being ‘foolish in love’. Let me tell you what I did.

This Valentine week, I ran this happy campaign about ‘Love, Sex & Relationships’ on my social media. I have canned that as a little presentation for you:

Above are the secrets of complicated relationships. It talks about how we complicate them. It also has my thoughts on how to simplify them. These tips to improve relationships have been accumulated over the years with experience. By experience I mean – a few bad break ups that I myself had. And further interaction with lakhs of youngsters like you while I met you as a Motivational Speaker. Thank you for believing that I could be your confidante!

(Must read: 8 Ted Talks that might help you Save your Relationship)

Movies have created this artifice that every person is in a relationship. And you are so unfashionable if you are not into one. But boring, complicated & dramatic relationships are a harsh reality of today’s times. Not the Bollywood- Hollywood type mushy romantic love stories. At least, majority of the emails / FB messages that I receive say so. The infant mortality rate of love stories seems to be greater than even corruption these days.

Accept it.  At one point or other, we all need to be in a romantic relationship. So, why not create better relationships!

Love as an emotion is meant to inspire, to help you become better, happier. However, if the relationship itself begins on an FMCG mode then emotional shit is bound to happen. If it is not inspiring you to be better, it is just fatal attraction. Not love. Never love.

This then leads to you getting mired in an ‘Udaasi / Boredom’ of an indescribable kind.

An old hindi song beautifully says:

Wo Afsaana jise anjaam taq laana naa ho mumkin;
Usay aek khoobsurat mod dekar chodna achaa

You might want to read some of the following posts; funny relationship advice in them that actually works (and I know this after knowing how to create dysfunctional ones too!)

Why is it Absolutely Okay to be Single
Vicky Loner’s Foolproof Guide to Overcoming Sex Addiction
Lovepal Bill for the Corrupt Dil

Keep Rising & Shining always,

Akash Gautam

 

About Author

Akash Gautam is a Motivational Speaker & Corporate Trainer in India. Hundreds of Top Corporates like Google, CIPLA, Vodafone, McKinsey & Co., Maruti, HDFC, RIL, M&M & premier colleges like IIMs, IITs, SRCC etc go to him whenever they need a refreshing, big bang impact. Write to usWrite to us to know how he can transform your Team.

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