We invented ‘Zero’. Guess we also invented ‘Timepass’ , ‘Day Dreaming’ & ‘planning which usually FAILS’.

How so very often have we wanted to change things in our life, also knew the methods & ways to achieve the change but just could not find the force & self discipline to CHANGE.

We have all the answers in this highly communicative age. Kya karna hai, Kaisey karna hai: Sab pata hai ! Then why is it that it so happens that :-

–             You want a more fit body but just do nothing to achieve that ?

–        You want to speak better but are not able to take massive action about it.

–             You are just not able to meet most of your plans; inspite of making all your plans.

You decide to change on your birthdays, on so many previous new year eves BUT !

One lesson that I have clearly learnt while travelling across, doing TALKS & meeting people is:-

‘People do not CHANGE’. They just do not change when you suggest them a better option. They change ONLY when change is the ONLY option left.

Our hardened habits make us so very predictable & not so malleable to change; inspite of the hazaar plannings that we regularly do.

Here is what has worked for me & I see working for many others too:-

1.    Do less!  

There is too much around to be done. There is too much around to attract to distract. Simplify, prioritize and become absolutely clear in the new year. Everything & everyone is not worthy of your attention!

You wish to DO newer, exciting & better stuff in Life ???

STOP doing some of the old, non exciting & mediocre stuff that you compulsively end up doing because of YOUR habit.  e.g. If YOU enjoy your online time more than YOU do your offline time : ‘There’s something definitely wrong you are doing in real Life’.

Kick the ‘Swaad’, ‘Chaska’ aspects from your life & trust me you shall have created a lot of space for your plannings to happen. SIMPLIFY!… if you are genuinely bored of Additions, Subtractions, Divisions & multiplications …

There is too much information, drama, and triviality around. In this ocean of very attractive garbage; your decisions to change can easily get lost. Keep on reducing ‘What you process & Do’. Be a strong Reductionist!

Addressing 2500+ audience from 7 countries @ Kolkata
Addressing 2500+ audience from 7 countries @ Kolkata

In 2013, I travelled countries & states to do 125 Talks & Events across Top Corporates & Colleges. Trust me I could not have travelled and processed this much had I not been a reductionist . You might get tempted to ‘complex’ your life in hazaar ways but do not forget:-   ‘It is all about ‘Simplification ”.

2.  Self Discipline

Once you have decided to ‘Do Less’. Now do that ‘Less’ v well  . Be hard on your ownself in doing that ‘Less’ very well…  Cultivating the path of self change requires utmost exertion of body & mind. Take this very strong decision to be strongly ‘Self Disciplined’. If temptations come; Wink at them & YOU keep on doing ‘what you planned’.

It is fun when you are on YOUR road; while you see the whole world falling to temptations. I have enjoyed my moments of ‘self discipline’ very much. It sometimes make me feel very powerful and it is this power only which creates a lot of hidden, notorious strength for more plannings to get achieved. Here is what I try, do & strongly recommend you too:-

– 1 hr on Physical Fitness
– 30 mins Meditating
– 7+ hrs of sleep
– 1 hr on reading ‘Awesome stuff e.g. Books, Magazines etc’.

In your 24 hours -Keep the above jabardasti ‘FIXED’ & revolve the rest of your Life, plannings & works around it ..

You’ll see yourself AWESOMELY progressing then !!

3.  Stop worrying about ‘Your Emotions’.

“Do you actually remember what were you thinking & feeling, this time last year? I guess – Not.   Are not our emotions, feelings & desires so very disposable? Do not give them much importance. Rather jabardasti bring your mind fully to activity of your plannings. I mean whenever you get attracted to your old habit of thinking JUNK stuff; just shut up your mind and make it dance to your plans. Think Less, Do more ! Whenever in life you are losing self control…Just think of Sunny Leone’s cameraman…!!!

Swasth raho, Mast raho aur Vyast raho! Nahin manogay ? To ‘Trast’ raho…

A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishments.  Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results…

Rely more on self than on anyone else & work very hard. Then ‘Sab hoga’ !

I meet so many people who are achieving their dreams because of ‘Self Discipline’. Now you go & do it.

Happy ‘Self Disciplined’ New Year !

Akash Gautam

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  • anil

    A nice read !!!
    will implement in coming days 🙂

  • Umesh Dhingra

    This blog as,always ,gives a lot to self improve.also you addressing the CAs is very impressive,best wishes for 2014

  • krishna

    Its realy inspirable for me.. coz I ve no self control on myself… thnk u soo much fr ur advise.. keep updating such typ motivational updates…..

  • Bharti

    Awesome!!!!!!

  • neha

    M goin no where.. lyf is mess… it helped a lil..

  • Smita Sinha

    AWESOME POST…just love it..

  • pragati

    VEry inspiring … I will try to do it as much as i can… Thanx akash

  • anushalini

    akash dis iz 1 of d awesum post by u ……..dis iz d maxi prblm of our generatn we think a lot ye bhi karenge vo bhi karenge bt for dis we hardly take any action ….

    really inspiring post …..😊😊😊

  • khushboo

    Indeed very inspiring.. Thank you for this blog!

  • Naveen Chaurasia

    kuch nahi krengy sewayeh party keh
    new year is to celebrate only not to change nw we r adopted by time.. wht time gives we take it for granted…

  • NikitaG

    This was as awesome as always. Akash sir, you really inspire people through these amazing blogs. Thank you. 🙂 😀 And this post is really relevant given the long lists of unreal resolutions that most people make during this time.

  • Ravi Reddy

    dil garden garden ho gaya by god sirji..

  • Prateek Mathur

    Hi Akash
    Superb.. I will implement it.

  • shantanupanda00

    Thanks Sir for such a strong motivation on this New Year eve…Thank You..Happy New Year..May God make you more prosperous this new year…N us too…:-D..:-D

  • UR

    Soooo much needed this. 🙂
    Truly “Mann ki baat”…. 😀

  • tejasv

    that cameraman part is motivating…that line is my desktop wallpaper (Y)

  • Anas Javed

    Awesome sir…..

  • Vijaya

    much needed retrospect . most of the time we know we are simply killing time or sleeping over important work and time flies…….your blog is a great reminder.

  • nikhil

    I’m Loving it:) Great Post

  • Pummy Sharma

    The way you bring the Hindi into play is amazing. And that is also your strong point.
    Hope I will become more self disciplined this coming year.

  • aarti

    I agree to all the stuff.. It’s an amazing resolution one can think Off on the New year eve!!!

  • anuja mohan

    love it:)

  • aditi

    its indeed helpful in making our desire a burning one.. thanks a lot sir ..keep motivating us .. we are blessed to have u 🙂

  • Kartik

    Superb Post.
    Hit directly to the point and I am surely going to implement these!
    Thank you for putting it up and providing a really fruitful solution.

  • Diljot Bal

    thankyou so much

  • Ankit

    Superb…..

  • divya

    this was what i heard from u yesterday, sir… thank u so much…i have started going with these words.

  • Just saying

    The funny part is many people will comment about the awesomeness of this article and how it inspired them and STILL won’t do anything to improve themselves ! They’ll forget it after a couple of days.. 😀

  • astha bhargav

    HELLO AKASH SIR..:)
    I also have d same problem no self control !! The moment i read such posts I feel so confident n so energetic n self disciplined too.. but d problem is dat self disciple doesn’t last for a long tym! wat to do..?

  • Priyanka Mullick

    suggest some awesome stuff that we should read

  • lastseek

    Whenever in life you are losing self control…Just think of Sunny Leone’s cameraman…!!!

  • Twinkle Garg

    really inspiring sir……thanku soo much

  • Chandan

    It gives me me new way to set my life goals..when I m succed I definetly meet you mr AkashGautam

  • Abhilash

    Thanks a lot, sir…

  • laxminarayan

    In April 2015, two of your post(10 se 2 baje ka time bahut keemti hota hai, and be selfish–do your work and not think about others–they will start following you gradually) brought a major change in my life.I would like to say thank you for that..That came at a time when I was mission less in my life.After my CAT 15 ,I have been again feeling a void in my life, just don’t feel like doing anything;depression and unconscious mind taking over me …Thanks for this post. I will get up again.

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