Bahut huaa ab taq ! She died. We do not even know her name. Guess it was the rape on the ‘Image of my modern India; a country which is more pseudo than real’. Her rape came to light but there would be thousands of other; which did not on the pretext of social ignominy. Dear Indian MAN: Women want us to KNOW this:-

It is not about the NATION. It is about YOU. She lives in a country where she does not trust courts, laws, law makers. She requests each and every man to take care of his own self. The best service that we can render to the nation is to ‘keep care of our self in the right way’. So, the next time ‘the spur of the moment’ precipitates a wild instinct in your body to attack her like a dog- REMEMBER- you’ll kill her and your own conscience for those few minutes of excited & forced pleasure.

The politicians ONLY know to PROTEST by walking out of the Parliament & NOT by walking INTO it to change the system. They will not take strong actions to wipe the TEARS but rather use a TEAR gas. They are just not doing much & their populist, patriarchal & parochial outlook will worsen our Republic as Rape-ublic.  They do not have the balls to CHANGE the system. They can only accuse each other or condone or condemn. Dear Indian MAN — Please: ‘You CHANGE’. Do not just pass by when a lady is being mocked at around you.

And if you don’t know what patriarchy means (I wish you paid more attention at school): HERE IT IS!

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The son of the President of our country says ‘women who are dented and painted & women who go to discos invite rape’. Dear GAANDU- your thoughts will find no buyer even at olx.in / quickr.com . Even if you spray all Axe deodorants on yourself; no normal women will want to even touch you; with a mindset as yours. Accept that the world has changed. The world has moved much ahead from your patriarchal ways. I suggest you to read Vicky Loner to clear away the Junk from your thoughts!

Dear Indian Man- So many of you seem to have taken the classical sex position (men above) too much to your psyche. Please correct your psyche.

Dear Indian Man- We are still waiting for the time when majority elders will bless their children with ‘May God Bless you with a daughter’. These elders allude & sometimes even force us to abort the girl child & then worship somebody else’s in Navratras. And you are not doing much to change their attitude. As a Motivational Speaker, I am trying to bring change, one counsel session at a time. What are you doing?

Dear Indian Man – Women may be slightly bodily less strong than you are but yes — they do have patience to labor a child and bear menstrual cycles every month. We do not HAVE.

Everything around us- Bollywood, TV Advts., Media, Item songs portray women as glorified sex objects. We do not expect any of them to CHANGE. But -Dear Indian Man — You CHANGE. (Read more about Sexism in Bollywood).

Dear Indian Man — the ladies are learning & taking time to be as great a cook as your moms are. Do not COMPARE them. Give them a hand. You should know how to feed your own self too! And if you can’t, at least give them some time. Your moms are great but they are our moms & should not be confused with your GFs/ Wives. Get the whole damn patriarchy & dominance out please.

Dear men- ‘Women are sick of your Touchy Touchy attitude’. Before you write RIP —the Delhi Girl, you must RIP (Rest Indian Patriarchy) system.

One person can make a difference & that is you — the Indian MAN. Be a MAN !

Akash Gautam

 

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