There is nothing sexier than an inspired & intimate conversation. Isn’t it? There is a lot of seductive appeal about people who COMMUNICATE it right in their lives.

Most people have a Vinegar approach to communication. They just do it ‘just like that’. Default mode. Chalta hai ! Khuch bhi ! They do not realize that ‘One can attract more flies with Honey than with Vinegar’.

Majority relationships (personal & professional) in our lives can get diseased & look less inspired because of the ‘lack of quality of Communication’.

What is that one thing which top achievers usually do very right in their lives?

My Answer: – They know the secrets of Communicating right with people around. The keyword here is ‘richness & craft in modulating your communication to get it right’. Also read:- ‘7 Habits of highly ineffective Communicators’.

And it could be with anyone. It could also be with your own self – truthful and unadulterated e.g. how often do you allow people’s non-sense affect your moods? One ability which can really set you apart from others is ‘your ability to avoid controversies in your life’. Some people just ATTRACT controversies especially small, petty people issues. Is not your life much bigger and more worth than that?

E.g. If you do not like someone’s face, IQ, maturity, personality etc — then please keep your opinions with YOU only. When you publicize someone’s oddities or make faces at them or prove to them that they are inferior- it is then that you attract social controversies.

I know it is very attracting to do gossip, to discuss people but it comes with a COST: your own mental peace will get lost in the barter.

When you are centred & not feverish in your communication with people who irritate you- your charm becomes manifold. Isn’t it? Personally I have realized a very profound thing:- ‘the more quiet you remain; the more dangerously powerful you appear to others’. Confidence is silent. Insecurity is kind of loud. If you are really confident; you will not need to prove yourself to people around.

Communication is like Smooching. Imagine if the other person is not interested? Holy shit! You’ll be doing an abuse of him/ her. So get your charms right 🙂 … This is how you can do it:

So, these are the 9 mistakes that good communicators always avoid. You may call it 9 tips for improving communication or 9 things fantastic communicators do or 9 ways you can improve your communication skills. But for me, these are my learnings during my journeyings as a Motivational Speaker & Communication Trainer in India. I have canned them into 9 ideas for fantastic communication. Download, share, use, reuse, overuse. But USE. And learn. Because, that’s the only thing that I aim for 🙂 ..

Happy Learning!
Akash Gautam

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  • Aishwarya Mishra

    Sir

    Here you said about 24*7 availability.

    But sometimes if its not done
    People call : “bhaav maar ra hai”

    How to deal with this?

    • AkashGautam

      Do not be harsh with anyone. Just be focused about your own life. The most difficult business is to manage your own business. Dont deal with such people who such crap stuff to you. Deal with your own self i.e. your own Goals in life & soon the same people will become your believers.

  • thank you sir for sharing this valuable content.

  • Gaurav

    just one word!!!
    wow

  • Hemant Kapoor

    It was simply awesome!! But, I have a question. The notion of staying silent is understandable. However, how we can add fun to our communication or create humour in the way we speak, when we are not supposed to express ourselves loudly? It’s something personally I feel. I can’t be humourous or funny without being loud. And then people often complain about anyone being silent around them.

  • vikas patel

    Thnkyou so much sir, it was awesome 🙂

  • Shilpa Modi

    Hello sir….
    I m definitetly not a perfect communicator.
    N after yor awesome communicatn trick i’ll surely try to improve myself.
    Thanku so much

  • Arun

    Slide 6: Advice is a Noun, It should be Advise, which is a verb. It is not very professional.

  • HINA AZAD :)

    hi friend, so another shot of “THE AKASH STYLE”… nice:)

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